Cyber Monday deals

Hi there! There's a slew of sites that shares every single Cyber Monday deal but this average gal prefers to highlight just a few fun finds, perfect for yourself or for giving this holiday season! Plus we're not just for deals and discounts... head here -- and tell friends -- for fashion, deals, food, fun and more! woot, woot!

We'll have more holiday gift ideas later this week and next but here's something to whet your appetite.

Adoring this Nine West black-patent leather pump, just $24.95 (Reg. $78!). I have a very similar heel and always get a million compliments. Plus, it looks awesome with everything from jeans to a cocktail dress. Imagine that fab front detailing peeking out of a pair of pants. LOVE! Also comes in black leather, satin and other colors! And, there's about 100 other hottie Nine West shoes available, all under $39.95!

So perfect for you or for gift giving: Living Social (similar to Groupon) today is featuring a $60 gift certificate to wine.com for just $30!! The number one retailer, utilize this site to either buy a vino you've been interested in, or stock up on a few to for friend's birthdays, holiday soirees and more. Certificate is valid through 3.30.11.

Need a gift for a guy? Check out this Cole Haan "Rustic and Penny" Money Clip & Case for just $25 (reg. $55) now available at Rue La La, one of my top online sample sale sites! For men, there's also card holders, belts, shoes and more, and loving all the flats and heels for women under $100! It's Cole Haan, ladies. It's a steal. Click through the link to access all the deals and steals.

A gal would love: Adore this Pottery Barn jewelry roll for just $19! Comes in red and blue, and today the PB is offering FREE monogramming AND free shipping. What's not to love? A personalized gift is always so lovely. Just shows that you really care, and clearly planned in advance! This is something someone will have for years; it's so perfect for traveling. (Thanks to the fabulous Bon Bon Rose Girls for showing me this!)

Want a cute outfit for a little one? Head to Bay &Trey, a South Florida-based kiddie clothing designer. We have a few of her shirts -- including a tank my daughter wore for her 1st birthday! -- and we love them. Cute tie-dyes, little frills, studs, hearts, peace signs, rocker looks and way more! Extra adorable is that the girl shirts have a tiny little heart on the back, just at the top. It's her signature and everyone compliments it. Today only, get 25 percent off the whole site and free shipping with a $40 purchase!

Another perfect kiddie option? A personalized books, gifts, toys and more! Imagine how exciting it would be to see your name in print. Well, now you can. I remember these from back in-the-day and now, they're better than ever! Identity Direct (super well-known company!) has a gazillion options, and today only, get them at 20 percent off with code CYBER MONDAY. Get ready to be the coolest gift-giver. EVER!

Looking for furniture or home accessories? Check this out: Save 15% on almost everything at Crate and Barrel, plus free shipping on select items totaling $100+. Love all of their furniture, etc (we have one of their rugs) and they also have wonderful smaller items for host gifts this season. Use code SAVE15. Plus, click through ebates for an additional 6 percent cashback. Me likey!

Have you or a guy in your life been looking to tone with those sneaks we keep seeing everywhere? Seems like it takes some time out of the gym and you can still get a tush and thighs you want! Hell, what's not to like? Head to 6pm for serious deals on Reebok's Easy Tone. They're just $39.95 (reg. $100!) today.

A perennial favorite, VistaPrint is offering the following for FREE (just pay shipping): 250 business cards, 1 photo calendar, 140 return address labels, 10 5x7 Holiday Cards, 10 4x8 Holiday Cards, 1 mug, 100 Holiday PostCards (BEST DEAL: each postcard will be less $.05, shipped to you!), 1 4x6 photobook, 1 tote bag, 1 sticky note pad. You can select just one, or all, of these items and they'll all be free!

Also know that today LOFT has 40 percent off everything, New York & Company has 50% off the whole store, Kate Spade has an extra 25% off the whole site, and a lot more! Just go to a site you like and chances are there's a deal right on the homepage!